5 Reasons Why Smart People Suck at Dating

As Ernest Hemingway says, "An intelligent
man is sometimes forced to be drunk to spend time with his fools." To quote myself, Adam LoDolce says, "An intelligent
woman is sometimes forced to be drunk to have sex with fools." If you're smart, dating might even be harder
for you than for others. Here's five reasons why. Some people out there say that life is easier
when you're smart, but I disagree. I help a ton of really smart women find love.

Let me tell you, sometimes the smarter you
are, the harder it is. Here are those five reasons why. Number one is you tend to over analyze everything. Every problem you've ever had in your life,
you'll be able to just think through, except for dating.

If 2X equals 6 then X equals three. When it comes to love, it's definitely not
that cut and dry. Sex times two plus texting times four times
eight weeks equals love? It's not a formula. If you find that you are constantly over analyzing
every single thing in dating, in relationships, and you know what? It might be time to just learn how to go with
the flow just a little bit more.

Love is not a formula to be followed. Emotions certainly cannot be filled out in
an algorithm. Number two is everyone expects you to have
the perfect partner. If you're an overachiever in every area of
your life, you can work through anything and make it happen, except for finding a suitable
partner.

You might work hard to be a doctor or a lawyer,
successful business woman, but you know what? That doesn't necessarily mean that you're
going to have success in your love life. Have patience and understand that you can
be happy now being single and anyone who puts pressure on you to find love is, well, they're
dumb. They don't understand that you'd rather be
single and happy than married and miserable. Number three is the harsh truth that people
you meet are usually less intelligent than you are.

Let's say you're in the top 30th percentile
of IQ. A lot of men, well, they will really annoy
you, not understand you, or worst of, get intimidated by you. Finding love and happiness is important and
maybe you won't end up with someone as smart as you, but you'll find someone who's just
really compatible with you. Maybe they are the fun to your serious.

Maybe they are the relaxed to your stress. Maybe they are the simplicity to your complexity. Finding love doesn't mean finding another
you. It means finding someone who completes you.

Number four is you might just have less experience
with love. Smart people tended to spend more time on
their achievements than on relationships when they were younger. Let's get real here. It's pretty rare to be the valedictorian who's
also the prom queen.

Now, when you were younger, you might have
spent all of your time going to college, going to grad school, getting your first job, finding
a really high paying career, while other people may have spent time really working on their
social skills and building relationships with people. Now is the time to really make this a priority
in your life and put as much energy into learning your social skills, learning how to flirt,
learning how to date and getting that experience as you would in other areas of your life. Number five is you feel entitled to the perfect
love story. Yes, you may have the perfect job, but you
might not find the perfect relationship.

Why, because perfection doesn't exist in relationships. You will find a relationship that is great,
that is healthy, that's going to make you so happy in life but, no relationship is perfect. No man is perfect. Although you might be a perfectionist in other
areas of your life, it's really time to open up and be able to explore other opportunities
with people.

Don't be so quick judge when you meet people
for the first time. Realize that the men that you meet may not
be as smart as you but they may have other attributes that are really, really important
and great. Loosen up your criteria a little bit and explore
other opportunities. Explore other people.

You know what? Don't forget to have a little bit of fun. That's what this is all about. I want you to share this video if you agree
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or relationships. Thank you so much for watching and I'll speak
to you, you sexy, smart lady, next week. Bye-bye..