If you want to get back together with your
ex, but he or she is now dating someone new, then this video is for you. In fact, Im
going to tell you how your exs new lover could actually help you win them back in the
long run. Im Brad Browning, by the way Im a
relationship coach and author of The Ex Factor, a guide that teaches men and women how to
rebuild a broken relationship and rekindle things with an ex. So, I should first say that this video is
mainly for those who broke up within the past year or so.
The same things may apply if your
breakup happened long ago, but thats a topic Ill cover in another video. Lets start by talking about rebounds. In most cases, the new guy or girl your ex
is now dating is a rebound. A rebound relationship is essentially just what the
name suggests: a quick fix for your ex to get through the sadness and loneliness
that they are experiencing in the wake of your breakup.
Keep in mind, by the way, that breaking up
with someone can actually be even more difficult and gut-wrenching than being broken up with.
That means that even though your ex may have been the one to initiate the breakup, its
highly likely that they are just as heartbroken as you are right now. So, whats the easiest way to get through
the difficult post-breakup emotions and sadness? Occupy your time and keep yourself busy by
finding someone new. In all likelihood, if your ex has replaced
you with someone new quickly after breaking up with you, then this person is probably
just a rebound to help them get over the breakup blues. And believe it or not, this rebound relationship
can often be good news for you if you want to get back together with your ex.
I know what youre thinking right now.
Youre asking yourself, how the hell can my ex replacing me with some loser help
me get them back? Well, the answer is actually fairly simple.
First of all, assuming that this new person that your ex is dating is just a rebound relationship
some guy or girl that your ex met in a nightclub and hit it off with then its
nothing serious. Theyre probably not doing candlelit dinners at fancy Italian restaurants
theyre just hanging out now and then, relying on the physical side of their relationship
to maintain the bond. While it may be painful to hear that your
ex is just seeing this new guy / girl for the sex, thats actually a good thing for
you. It means that they probably dont have much in common, and they certainly dont
have the same kind of bond that you and your ex had.
Most rebound relationships last 3-5 weeks.
While thats certainly not a hard and fast rule, its true for most scenarios. That
means that its extremely likely your exs rebound relationship will be over soon. Once
the rebound ends, your ex is going to have to face the reality of their situation
theyre single, lonely, and they no longer have anyone to keep their mind off of you! While your ex has been delaying this inevitable
surge of heartache and loneliness, youve already been dealing with those emotions.
Your exs rebound just delayed this, and now that the rebound is over, these emotions
will surface again. Now that your exs rebound relationship
is over, its time to pounce.
Because your ex is depressed and lonely and because
they just spent a few weeks dating someone who wasnt nearly as compatible as you were
youre probably going to start looking like a very good option. So, with your ex in a fragile state and looking
for a quick fix to heal their heartache, you can pounce on the situation by re-establishing
communication with your ex. Dont mention their rebound relationship, and dont tell
them that you want to get back together. Instead, simply start talking with them again
in a casual, friendly, and upbeat way.
The goal is just to remind your ex that youre
still around, that youre still a great person with whom they once shared a deep romantic
connection, and that getting back together with you is an easy and fast way to make the
emotional pain go away. In a sense, then, youre using your exs
rebound relationship to make yourself look good.. And youre subtly reminding your
ex that love isnt an easy thing to find. So, if you see your ex with someone new, dont
panic celebrate! Because, if you play your cards right, their rebound relationship might
just help you win them back.
Obviously Ive simplified things here to
fit this all into one video, so if youve got questions, please feel free to leave a
comment below and Ill do my best to answer. Im also releasing new videos all the time,
so please subscribe to my channel here on YouTube for more advice videos. And finally, if youre serious about winning
back your ex.. If this is the person that you want to have by your side in 20 or 30
or 50 years, then you should consider investing in my Ex Factor Guide program.
Its a step-by-step
system that will teach you all the ins and outs, covering every what if scenario.
And I promise its totally affordable, too. Grab your copy at my website, www.BreakupBrad.Com. As always, thanks for watching! See you next
time..
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